Hi, I’m Tamara Leigh Fay
At the age of six during the usual Saturday chore lineup I picked up a large atlas (our world wide web then) and the page that I opened to was an intense midnight black sky covered with beautiful blazing stars. As I stared in wonder at the vastness of this photo I noticed a little drawn circle in the bottom corner of the page with an arrow pointing to - Our Universe. This was my first memory of witnessing something that took my breath away, a feeling of awe.
From that moment on I asked myself those big questions, “Who am I?”, “Why am I here?”and “ What is life about?”
I identify as (Short version) a Female, Daughter, Sister, Wife, Mother, Entrepreneur, and Friend. Through these roles and many more I have discovered and uncovered more of who I am , more of my spirit , my soul.
I have spent years blindly following the rules of success without even considering if I was happy. I didn’t know about mental health and emotional needs. I believed I was supposed to act like I didn’t need anything .
I have struggled with body image and lack of direction causing myself frustration, overwhelm and sadness. Now through my journey , with deep work and study I have come to realize … wherever we are is perfect. We can choose to change and experience the same circumstances differently.
My spirit is love in action, I am an unceasingly curious being of life who believes our personal self discovery is our purpose. As we unveil the love that exists within ourselves, our inspiration leads us effortlessly to all that is, all that we are.
I love dancing, being near the ocean, the warm sun, windy days, and walks in the forest with my two boys and our doggy. I love gathering with my close friends to share dreams and hurts, witness each other in our expansion and our blocks .
At Present I have combined all these aspects of myself into identifying as spirit having a human experience. Now I want to share and be of service as a soul guide/ life coach because of the profound change I have felt in my life.
“Our beliefs of all things create our reality.”
I Believe …
Life is constantly changing and how we relate to change is how we will experience our lives.
Life is happening for us, perfectly presenting lessons to learn and integrate, reminding us of our wholeness.
Our beliefs create our thoughts, our thoughts create our feelings, our feelings create our actions, our actions create our character, our character creates our reality.
We are the creators of our reality. We create so we may discover and expand on a level beyond what we have imagined for ourselves.
We are in stages of knowing ourselves. Sometimes we don’t know that we don’t know how to do something.(Unconscious Incompetence) Sometimes we know that we don’t know something and it bothers us.( Conscious Incompetence) Other times we know that we know how to do something and it takes effort.(Conscious Competence) Lastly we know how to do something and it is second nature and we rock at it. (Unconscious Competence)
The universe is perfect. (no resistance to anything)
Only our own mind affects us. (no victim universe)
Time does not exist. (we experience time due to our fear of death)
The universe is one being. (this belief eradicates separation)
Only love satisfies the soul. (our mind can’t understand only the heart)
This video, The Most Astounding Fact, is one way to describe these quotes.
“When you think without love, you are not thinking you are hallucinating.”
Tamara Leigh Fay
What I Do …
I work with humans who have asked themselves big questions like …Who am I? Why am I here? How do I create the life of my dreams? Why does life feel so hard?
I offer fundamental teachings (Life Skills) that create a foundation for expansion through two hour, day long and overnight gatherings with experiential workshops, 1:1 coaching with attention on inner awareness (Self Inquiry) and with thoughtful observation and deep reflection (Contemplation), Meditation, Visualization, Dancing , Kundalini and Hatha Yoga, Breathwork, Music, Art, Nature and Animals.
These teachings may be new to you, or may be a refreshing reminder of what you already believe inside. Often we have a deep knowing inside and when we see this knowing reflected elsewhere we feel a deep sense of resonance, connection, and a feeling I like to call “YES, this is it!” because it feels so right and so aligned with who we are. It almost feels like déjà-vu.
Why I do…
Love is my motivation and my intention.
Love means something different to each person. The word ‘Love” carries the vibration of the individual - their values, beliefs, and expectations. People speak and people understand words spoken through their own individual filters.
Love is an energy vibration. Love is an open and light sensation. Love is not an emotion that comes and goes. Love is a vibration that resides within you as you.
How I Do This …
With Presence, True Listening and Unconditional Love …offering a safe space where surrendering and trust feels glorious.
Inspired By …
I am most inspired to share and do the work I do because of the freedom and the love experienced as we discover ourselves. As we live life with increased awareness, our life experiences change to reflect the state of being we are within. We begin to experience the power of our humanness and the creator we ARE of our lives. My vision is to introduce whomever I may to their personal truest essence. Let’s Go!!
Life, Family, Friends & Yoga Wisdom
Peter Crone
Abraham Hicks
Aaron Abke
Andrea Dequim
Dr.Joe Dispenza
Gabor Mate
Peter Levine
Martha Beck
Joy Kingsborough